We all need to weather things that we don't like. From time to time, you might need to take a job that doesn't exactly thrill you. Perhaps you'll be required to interact with people who are less than nice -- but you've gotta do it. Life often has messes to clean, people to handle, problems to manage. It's just the way things are.
That said, there is a dark side to this coin... or, should I say, an even darker side? There are times and situations into which we will immerse our own selves, yet there doesn't seem to be much rhyme or reason to it. Perhaps we're stuck in a dead-end job, despite our fine qualifications. Or maybe we allow ourselves to continue in a very unsatisfying and harmful relationship instead of ending things and moving along into a healthier direction.
We don't always make our own misery in life -- there's plenty which is handed to us. However, because there are so many things in life which cannot be controlled, there really is no reason to continue dealing with unhealthy and upsetting things when we can control them.
When you choose to move your life into a healthy direction, you're choosing happiness. You're choosing life and positivity with all who know you. You are enabling yourself to give and receive love more freely when you let go of unhealthy attachments. It can be incredibly hard not to fall into traps like this -- but so rewarding when you free yourself.