Tuesday, July 16, 2013
The Other Face of Clark Rockefeller (Christian Gerharsreiter)
In the Lifetime movie, Who Is Clark Rockefeller?, there were many instances of foreshadowing which gave the viewer some helpful hints. If you're experiencing any of these issues with someone that you suspect may be betraying you (though more likely on a smaller scale than this!), do not hesitate to investigate further.
Here are some of the clues that appear in the movie; some may apply to your own situation as well:
Changing stories: His stories constantly changed. At one time, he was trying to work with his uncle, David, but then in later stories, he told Sandra that David was actually his cousin. And in another instance... first, his mother was a "horsey set" debutante by the name of Mary. Then, in another story, Clark mentioned that his mother was child actress Ann Carter.
Crazy-making: When Sandra Boss called him on the discrepancy about his mother, he gave her a look as if she were ridiculous and quipped, "I think I know my own mother's name!"
Lack of proof: The Rockefeller in-laws never materialized. Clark would casually mention this or that relative as if he'd just spoken to them, yet Sandra was never introduced to them. Reigh also didn't get the opportunity to met them. Clark never shared his personal information with Sandra, such as his social security number or contact information for his family, citing "strange" privacy issues.
In hindsight, it's easy to see these discrepancies and issues. However, from the day-to-day living, these things are so close to home that it may be hard to zoom out and see them for the lies that they are.
Some people have called Sandra Boss gullible, stupid, and "unsympathetic." However, my heart goes out to her. Once you accept certain things, however dysfunctional the relationship, it becomes easier and easier to blur the line between what is acceptable and what is unacceptable. She was only one of so many people that Christian Gerhartsreiter fooled. It is human nature to want to accept the truth of the person that we love, and to want to believe the words that they say. I think that victims of similar ploys, even if orchestrated by less adept transgressors, will also have some sympathy for a woman who has had to endure such betrayal.
So many people have been taken in by far less competent liars than "Clark Rockefeller." Lying and betraying someone in this way is a terrible form of emotional abuse. Protect yourself. And when you find someone who is truly worthy of your trust, you can feel much more confident in giving it to them as you know what to expect.
Many have been intrigued by the tale, wondering who the real Clark Rockefeller is and where he came from. Christian Gerhartsreiter's kidnapping of his daughter was his undoing as his true identity became known. The public will learn even more secrets about Clark Rockefeller (or Christian Gerhartsreiter)'s life will come to light his trial for murdering Jonathan Sohus and Linda Sohus begins soon.